Relationships! Hard or Easy?

Do you think relationships are hard or easy? Do you think they get harder over time? Well i do believe its easy till you have been with that person for a while or if the "real them" starts coming out; which ever comes first. Time becomes a factor because a person tends to get comfortable and bad habbits tend to rise. If you live with someone that can be the real "Deal breaker" I am starting to think dealing with things is where we first go wrong. For example, smoking! If start one, and gradually continue to smoke with no intentions of it becoming habbit, it eventually does and ends up being very damaging. Same in a relationship. That actually covers time and when "the real" person come out of someone. Another thing that makes them hard is when you jump into one too fast. You know like when you havent got passed the infatuation stage. Have you met that one that you have hung out with for 2 weeks or maybe even a couple of months and everything about them was or is what your looking for? And you got the feeling like damn i need to keep this before it goes somewhere? Yeah... thats the infatuation. Your judging someone (first mistake) off of their top layers. Their look, smell, swag, steelo, speech, movements, body, smile, and what their mind allows you to see. Most of the time that is the real them just not all the real them. So I say when you meet someone that is totally awesome like that make sure you show you're into them but at times hubmle yourself so you can let your gaurds down too. Y'all are doing well if you make it passed the infatuation stage unless from the start you made and agreement that its just "for fun" (Never break agreements! Its as bad as Divorce). I guess I say all this cause from my experiences in relationships; When you. actually want to be with someone take time to be honest with what needs and wants are important to you. Also compromise is good if you can both actually honestly agree. Wow I guess in writing this I have changed my mind. Relationships are hard! What do you think?

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